源于爱。

只要你吃得饱，睡得好，
开心就好

我虽然不能控制沟通上的误会，
不能控制你家里煮的佳肴是否合你胃，
也不能控制是否你工作疲惫，

但，我能把在我范围之内的事做到最好
最算这事我可以和你分辨到底，
我没有类似男人应有的脾气，
所谓，不甘示弱的精神，我没有。
心里，我知道你饿了，也等累了。

这几天公司举办的嘉年华，也让我累坏了。
筹备了2个月，全部就将会发生在明天。
这次，我几乎是策划的一切，
设计，准备，安排，领导，
一点错误，一定会被放大来批评，
一切一切的压力都在我一人上，
明天的稿我都还没准备好。

这些，都不重要。
我没太过的在意。
只是，和你见个面，
你的存在，给我力量，
给我信心，给我自由。

我希望，我们在一起不是物质上的满足。
而是，心灵上的另一半。

别说，一个女人不用依靠男人。我们相爱，并不是依靠彼此，我们是独立的在一起，彼此相爱彼此欣赏，很快乐地，很舒服的，我们一起面对喜怒哀乐。就算天掉下来，我们都不畏不乱一起面对地。如果你忘记了，我愿意用我一辈子提醒你。

好好先生

好的生活就是
乐观，活在当下

24岁，
我从不觉得自己年轻，
这年龄的百万富翁已经数不胜数。

我总是不爱乱用钱，
虽然没有太多commitment，
但对自己辛苦赚来的钱，
我总是不想花的糊里糊涂，
这些钱都是时间和自由换来。

我对自己未来充满幻想，
知道未来的生活，是现在奋斗的目的
没有容易的生活，只有精彩的生活。
只要身心健康，一切都是美好的。

妈妈28岁生了我，
我24岁也意味妈妈已经52岁了。
虽然喜欢装着不理不会，心里知道爸妈不年轻了，
我要好好利用时间，体会，吸取人生经验
让自己有照顾你们的能力，
你们照顾了我那么多年，给了我那么多，
我都知道。

面对交际，
除了和几位比较要好的朋友，
我也没时间花太多心思在其他人身上了，
一值都不爱虚伪，假仁假义，
前面的赞美，后面要你死。
这些人都因为进入社会后，慢慢出现。
我几乎看的很透，偶尔也会心寒。
只有，默默分析，再理智的行动，
我通常都不会牵涉。

面对工作，
除了那句，还是那句。
累积的只有经验，
当别人依赖你，要你领导，向你学习时，
就是你离开的时候。
因为，你已经学完了。
脸上依然带着笑容。
也许，有人问我干嘛不帮忙你家人呢？

嘴上常说，我要拿经验啊～
心里却想着，
这太容易了啊！！！


人生就是不停的战斗。
尤其是，
你战斗能力会因时间的消弱。
你更不应该停。

有点挣扎的情绪

有点挣扎的情绪，就犯！

我们活在这现实的社会里，忘了自己的价值观
活在别人的眼里，堕落了自己一生。

没有目标，也没有自由，
为了生活而打拼，却牺牲了自己生活的意义

而人类给与智慧，原本是种天赐。
但让我们有了心计，让我们有了竞争，
让我们心里恶魔重生。

心里总是要为自己争取什么的，赢得什么的。
到头来，得到的，不仅是年老和病痛。

看着看着，我总看不下去。
偶尔，只是希望自己能够一个人静静，
把自己头脑完全放晴，在自己空间里，
我换来了自由自在，闭上眼睛，
我睡了下去，在梦里。。。

没有工作的世界里，我们依然勤劳。
但我们不是为了生活，我们为了自己兴趣的努力。
人们不在比较，因为各有所长也没有利益冲突，
治安很好，所以出去很自由，不用太多的计划，

这里，我们都很健康，没有赛车，因为都是用脚踏车。
有很多各种各样的活动，运动，party, 和 Adventure
我们可以去爬山，去玩水，去任何地方一起旅行～

这里人们不断学习，没有任何学习压力，
因为没有考试也没有限制你学你想学的。

没有任何利益的世界里，
我们不必要多余的应酬，
不必忍耐，不必压力，不必竞争，
我们互相帮忙，互相爱戴。


醒过来，这梦完了。
我不在期待了。
期待不能改变什么。

行动能。

A positive thinker

People are made out of positive and negative charges. 

People come around, walk around in your life. 

Some of them are negative carry, some are positive. 

One says that, stay away from negative thinker, negative actors, negative people. 

Always react with positive charged people.

I would say. 

mix with both. 

NEGATIVE PEOPLE

When met negative people,

I'm learning my emotional control, I'm learning critical thinking, I'm learning how to manage situation.

Negative people always drag you down, they will be pessimistic for everything. 

I'm learning calm down and remain positive. 

POSITIVE PEOPLE

When met positive people, 

I'm opened all my heart, and soul. 

Talk as loud as I can, because communicating with them made my life happier and more nourishale. 

With positive thinker, I'll always be a learner, and a listening as well as speaker. 

Both people always come around, walk around. 

Met both of them,

learn from both of them. 

but only be one of them. 

A positive thinker. 

 

A lesson, expectation.

Something to tell you. 

"It's awesome place. A place where people stood up high in the middle of the sky. looking down you can see many tiny people. It's amazing because it's very new at the moment." you holding my hand looking at my eyes.

I replied. It's not much different compared with standing inside a building and look down. 

I said that. 

You unwillingly agree with that, "I think you got your point too"

It's gonna be a great day, I smile while walking out my house.

Waiting you to finish your work. and ready to surprise you. Because I'm bringing you to One City. A place where you can stood in the middle of the sky. and look down at tiny people. I manage to figure out the direction. 

It's our day, like last time. We both understood, everything we matters is our feeling and we precious our time being together nomatter what we eat, we enjoyed together. no matter how we do it, we do it together. nomatter where we go, we holding hand and go together. 

It's a big surprise for me as well, as a gift. You got pissed off.

NO, I'm not going anywhere. YOU ARE NOT RESPECTING. 

I kept myself the best possible calm. 

I didn't expect this at all. After all I have done, all time we have been missing each other, waiting for today.

I didn't expect this at all. 

All I can do, is to keep calm. Look at it optismistically, and think of a solution to make things better.

Everything goes better after that. 

I remember once said, One who control his emotion, is one who control his life. 

Have been thinking and thinking for the whole day. 

I finally realize that, it's all about expectation. 

A great expectation leads you to great dissapointment. 

And we both had wrong expectation, come with lack of communication.

Bad things happened. 

Think of it. Communication and equilvalent lifestyle is a must. 

There is no need in future to have this incident happen again. 

Learn from it, we change it. Just like we did it like past. ok? 

I know, we both love each other.
That's why you spending time to make up, and dress up. It's for me I know it. and I appreciate it so much just I couldn't tell you.
That's why I want to bring you there, a place where simply you said, "it's awesome"

"Always remember that there are many- thousands of ways of expressing love. And remember that your partner has the right to express his or her love in ways that may not be what you want or expect. When you insist that romance take a particular form. This reflects your rigidity or insecurity.

You do. Of course have the right to have some of the romance come to you in the form you desire. But don’t expect your partner to read your mind! If you want something in your life, you must take the responsibility for manifesting it. You might simply talk with your partner about your wants and needs. Some people recognize subtle hints while others need lists and reminders.

If you work with your partner’s personality instead of against it. Your relationship will be much happier "

And.
Why not we learn to love each other in the way we both enjoy.


JY

要变强，不能变质。

一个原则，一个信念，一份责任
我不是一个会随便改变的人

我目标清晰，
不会被物质诱惑而迷惑

我有信心，不代表我高高在上目中无人
我被尊敬，被爱戴，被高举
不代表我会骄傲。

我用功，
我希望能做到多从收入，
我要理财，要及时。
管理，是一门学问
而且，很不简单。
所以要从头做起，慢慢一步一步地。


我有爱好，我有多方面兴趣
而不会放弃任何一项，
运动，摄影，阅读，吉他，电脑游戏

我爱家，我感恩，我饮水思源。
我知道自己的根。
我明白爸爸妈妈如何挨过生活，
如何白手起家。

我不会浪费，
不代表我没有素质生活。
我不相信名牌，
不代表我不会送给我女友。

以前，现在，未来。
我依然是我。

目标在夜里，
特别明确。

无聊的一天

我以为我会享受，

这天可以好好休息，

没有意义，

这4个字毁了今天

习惯了忙碌积极充实，

我不想再回到懒散的生活了！ 

亲爱的宝贝，

祝我们3周年快乐。

明天见！

My second room.

I took off my clothes, walked into my washroom.
Turn on the hot water. Took a hot shower immediately.
It's simply awesome, refreshed, and freedom.
It's my second home, that I now admit.

A place I read, play games, thinking, do gym, eat.
A place it's now my responsibilty to take care of.
A place, it's 100% on my own.

100% control give me a sense of ownership.
And that Give me alot of new ideas, new thoughts, and many creativities.

Thank you so much.
For everthing I have.

Opportunities is for you to grab. 

别人眼里一些琐碎事，也许是自己终生大事。

好像休息好久，

这月，忙得不亦乐乎。

在这里工作，

生活突然变得很充实，

一点也没时间胡思乱想。

这嘉年华，他们真的拼了。

这里工作的人都是被Motivated得很厉害，

他们有自己秘籍，不能告人的秘密。

84个手术，竟然3天里达到。

我自己也不相信。

工作充实，

对我生活也改变了很多，

做事积极其中之一，

我会做事会开始速战速决，

不拖泥带水。

我对人对事，也开始有了不一样的看法。

心里想着，我也不只是个平凡人。

在被推动下才会积极，

在面对挫折时，才肯尽力。

在这里我学习很多，面对很多，

希望离开时，我能带走一切。

I got nothing to lose, everything to gain

爸爸又再吹我离开。

我笑了两声： 

“我会的，不过不是现在。”

我24，同时他们也50有余。

有点心急，不是意外。

我静静，

但心里又怎么会不明白呢。

尽然我是长子，我就有这个责任。

而责任并不是对一些事或对一些人，

责任是本身原则，

对家人，对伴侣，对朋友，对工作，对自己。

责任无所不在。

所以离乡背井，并不是偶然。

我要到外面闯。

让我跌倒，让我一个人面对，

让我自己爬起来，让我独立，不依赖，

让我能靠得住，有能力承担。

你们要相信我，

我依然会回来，如果那天到来。

我要以一个非凡的身份回来。

到银行按钱时，前面站着一个外劳，

因为他忘了拿收条，我发现他银行户口有1千，

而我就只有2千，感觉我们都是一样。

工作，生活，金钱，

仿佛有着扯不开的关系。

家庭用品，饮食，住宿

我要快乐生活，我要快乐工作。

就是要先把这两个和金钱扯开关系。

可能吗？

想起一个外劳，

可怜的他，

我下个挑战是帮他完成那眼睛检验，

不管如何，要让他能够了解自己眼睛状况。

这是我的责任。

光学师的责任。

Time

When time flies, it will never come back
All it left is memories. Someday memories will be forgotten as well.

Appreciate everything single things that makes your day a happy one.
Say hi to your mirror every morning before you walk out from your room.
Live it to it's fullest.

In the end, things gonna changed accordingly.

Only love that doesn't changed.

we all getting older and older.
we might lose someone in our life,
In fact, we definitely will.
our family or friends or our love one.

It's difficult to accept that it gonna happen someday in future.
But it's not something to be accepted.
It's something we need  to work it out now,
to make it worth, and not wasted.

Life is so short.
Too short, that I would spend my whole life appreciating and enjoying it.

Thanks.
It's all about time.

1年

今天我支持你，
我给你100%肯定，
希望你能好好的。

但，生活无常
很多事，是有变数的
我冒着这风险，
给你一个安慰。

你要好好爱惜自己。
珍惜真心对你好的人，
不要一错再错了。

1年说多，又不是。
1年说少，又不是。


一年后，
你想起今晚，
柔柔声音，
“谢谢你支持我，你的支持对我最重要”
“我永远都会支持你的”
“你会等我吗？”
点点头，
我说 “嗯。”

已经没有对错，
自制才是重点。

而我，
我目标明朗，信心爆满地继续前进！


啊，我想起。
我新家，可能今年建好。

I'm okay.

I saw an uncle riding on a motobike,
Old and dirty, seems like he just back from his working.
He grabs my attention, because I'm sympathy on him.
wandering, why would he still working at this age.

When the traffic light turns red, he stops his motobite
ENGINE dies off.
It's engine is old and he's unable to start it back.
for some time, people behind honk-ing him.
I passed him.

Poor uncle.

Poor or Rich.
How would the world looks like from poor people's perspective, what about rich people?

I'm currently a poor one. I admit it.
With low income, and renting a small room out there.
Working as an optometry doesn't make you a rich guy.
But planning and saving is still a must doesn't matter I'm a poor or rich.

Saw an article in an restaurant, talk about self esteem. 

It says, every decision, every idea, and action came from yourself.

IS UNIQUE. 

It changed everything about you. and you are responsible to all your thoughts, action, decision.

It seems like, you decide what personality you are and how your life is always manage by your own. 

Hey, so Stop. and think. then plan. 

Once I said, look things from different perspective.
I explained to a maid from Indonesia about Glaucoma, although the whole process seems like talking "duck and chick". I don't give up explaining to the simplest until she understand it, most challenging part it's that the conversation is in MALAY.
She did her visual field examination perfectly under my guide eventually.

One born in rich will not understand how precious money, and time is.
One born in poor do not learn to appreciate knowledge, and wisdom.
Only rich people born from poor family, know the precious of life.
Rich or Poor, I'm ready to experience both.

Do you remember.
You once said, you don't want to look fool because admit he's looking an relationship with you.
You once said, believe in you. you don't want to look like a prisoner.
You once said, you lost of freedom and personal life.

But you can't say it anymore.
Unless you can explain to me.
The deal will never faded. until it's done.

Now at this moment.

I.....

I'm okay.

To Think about.

一切 好像来得很快
也许这就是 生活
来匆匆 去也匆匆

心里一阵沉默。
We Afraid.
Because of uncertainty.

这事一天还没解决，
我心依然不能完全放松，
你们将会有很多见面机会，
他不会容易放弃，这让我更不能轻易掉心

来到这里，我工作都不能全心全意。
当看到你信息事，我让病人等，
到厕所回复你，心里可是很激动。
无限想象，因为如此
我第六感很强。

我只有等这月完毕。
我是这样期待。

对了。
在这里工作，
是真的好无奈。

不好的，它们小题大作，
做好的，它们开一只眼关
这里没有太多亲情，
只有精神上的压力，
只有更多工作和责任
也因如此，我可以学很多。
只有抱着帮助给多，学到更多的态度
我才能呆这里那么久。

Comfirmation.
It's not all about increment.
It's about faith, pride, appreciation.
I'm not afraid to make mistake, but I learnt from it.

学完了就走，我爸是这样说。
是我天真。

狼人，也是有感情的人

那时分，我头脑只是一直在问自己
好要给我们一次机会吗？
这问题好像没有方向，只是在我脑海里旋转。

我没有奔溃。
我很冷静，也很严肃。
我突然变得很冷漠。
突然对这世界一切都不再相信。
我目中无神，冷眼望着你，
心里想着，想着，
你还想狡辩什么，很恨这伤痕，
累了。

月亮出来了，
月召唤我，要我面对它，
面对自己心中的疑问，要我相信自己知觉
不要在欺骗自己了，我不要再自欺欺人了
因为狼人在夜里看得很透。

月亮被乌云遮盖了。
看不见了，这狼人仿佛失去自觉地爬在地上。
没有力气。
他，想起了那时生病时，她为他抄下notes，在房间里默默陪伴着他。
又想起了，她每天每夜都不离不弃，不埋不厌的和他共度时间。
回忆起他们在书房里，爬着睡午觉，不怎么精彩的生活但依然相依为命
他们没有心事，因为总会有很多时间把它说出来，
他们求学生活里，没有解决不到的问题，因为都是一起面对的。
这里让他落泪了。


月老说，请相信她，并且原谅她。
狼人哭泣，你还可以相信一个曾经欺骗你的人吗。
月老，可以。她说她爱你。你要相信她，其实都是为了你好。

狼人，变回原形。


虽然，路好难走
虽然，过去美好日子不能从来
生活还是要过，太阳依然升起。
你也许对，人是会变。但这只是你自己思考角度的答案而已。
感情会被消磨，然而如果两人好好保鲜这感情，它是两人的责任。
我说，人会变，但不一定。



你在书房温习，我在楼上睡觉。
你温习到一半，跑了上来，
抱着熟睡的我，
一起睡着了。

外劳与我

他们国家贫穷, 生活成问题,
他们一家大小甚多,
所以他们离乡背井,

来到了外地寻找更好生活,
希望可以用劳力, 赚回一些金钱

大部分在这没有家庭,
大部分都是做着一些危险很高的工作,
对社会有贡献的工作,
然而他们并一点都不被尊重, 被当成外劳
没有社会地位,也没有尊严

他们有的在工厂,有的在建筑业, 有的倒垃圾,
他们月薪只并不多,
但他们心里,也许只有一个信念
就是用心工作,努力工作,
也许没有任何目标,只要安居乐业和定时寄钱回家就够了


知足常乐, 感受到了自己其实多么幸福
没有烦恼的生活,
我很知足,没有什么好要求的
只有做尽力好自己该做的, 就足够了

求学时,我们就是像油炸鬼这样,天天年粘在一起
是我太天真以为来到到这里, 就可以和以前一样
能够和你一起,开开心心,.

你公司有人向你暧昧了.我知道的.
尽管如此,你脾气多了, 你也说工作累了,
但口里就常常说我变了.

难道是我想多了.
我不想变成以前那个他.

对症下药，靠你了

和往常一样，我很喜欢简单生活
没有烦恼的，自然的，开心的，无忧无虑的

这几天，我很满足了
小孩脾气已经发完了
生活要继续下去了

你生日那天其实我们都过得很开心
这些日子都提不起劲来，原因都是我太会吃醋
那天，一早我到你家来，接了漂亮的你
在那Pavilion 广场里，我们很自由自在
这地方真的很舒服，
像两个小情侣，手牵手一同走
试试衣服，看看电影，观赏风景，
晚餐，我和你家人有说有笑一起度过
是个开心的一天。

今天，早上我到你家来了。
虽然，本来的西餐店没开，但还是吃了你想吃的ba ku teh
到了GM买你的一打必须用品，
购物的感觉真好，慢慢选慢慢挑，我又怎么不知道女人的心情呢
所以我也买了一些袜子
回家了，好像老歌怀念酱，拿起吉他就是这样弹唱起来
我真的很享受，
享受在雨天里，柔柔的灯光里，温柔的屋子里，
和你一起被充满温馨吉他声，你静静聆听，我静静哼着。
夜里，和朋友出来聚聚，周星驰的电影我不可能没看过，
永远都那么好笑，
没有花言巧语，没有多余应酬，
我们只是坐在一起看着，笑着。朋友。如此简单。
来回家路上你都很累，你睡着像猪酱也没有打扰你的打算
看着你，心里在想，我要快点长大，
我要给你保护给你安全感
只是希望你可以等我那么一天。
晚安。



放下，不是口中说说而已
let go and be trustful. sincerely and truthfully.
Only then, I can look forward optimistically.


昨晚，看了很多文章，都很有道理，
尽然已经是事实，我也不能做什么。
我不能改变他行为举动，他有他的权利。
我只可以让你知道我想法，我的感受。
下一步，就是靠你了

品冠说
“对症下药，不然病情恶化
只能说无可救药。”

TRUST

A lesson to be learnt.
TRUST
But wait. What it really is?
I even google about it.

It's sub-divided into psycology, socialogy and economics.

Trust in psycology is believing that the person who is trusted will do what is expected.
If a person is psycologically trusted, it will result of security, trust and optimism, while failed it leads to orientation of insecurity and mistrust.  It's applied in relationship.

Trust in socialogy is concerned with the postition and role of trust in a social systems. How much trust your colleagues given to you are measured by how much responsibility they have putting on your shoulder. It's applied in works.

Trust in economics is equal to trustworthiness. How reliable the transaction is, and how desire a party to reduce the cost or maximize the utility.

I have good sense. I always sense unexpected things like human behaviors, intentions, and thoughts.
It's doesn't come naturely because everything that happens always have it's own reason.

To trust or not to trust?
The answer always generated complexly in our brain based on incidents of past, now and predicted future. But the answer always reveal by it's common.

Is love all about trust?
I love you, so I trust you. but because I love you, so I feel jealousy.
I love you and I trust you, but when you not rejecting a desperate guy's flirts, gifts, cares.
You failed to do what I expected. But I love you. and I trust you.



Story line

First time I saw his message, I told you, "he's intention is obvious."
You ask me to trust. He has someone he love. He told everyone.
"Make no sense to me unless he's stupid."

Second time, I heard you are going to cinema,
Gathering is good, healhty and chilling. I'm always trusting you I say.

Saturday night, a night for Pasar Malam.
It's a big and crowdy Pasar Malam, shopping is always your favourite.
I'm still trusting you.

Some days later,
Cinema farewell for a colleague.
Your birthday eve, 2 guys came to your house fetch you to cinema.
Handmade chocolate cake and a branded watches that delivered at 12am midnight.
Reached your house and asked whether you need accompany.

Trust is stepping one step backward from your social and give freedom to your private life.
I'll define trust as ignorant.

I should have trust you,  I convince myself with one more reason.
not about confidence, or belief.
It's because it ends your pain.
I don't want you to leave me,
I don't want to give you any reason to leave me and go oversea.
I suffered with tears, I cry like a kid.
But it ends your pain.

A monk says.
"Be confidence, and love her more like no one. If she meant to leave, sooner or later she will leave.
Go and cry out loud, as your will, but when you finish your tears, you became a better person. You should be happy because you lost a girl who doesn't love you, and she lost a guy who willing to do everything for her."

Trust is about love, true.
But if you loving someone, you don't change the origin of that person. He's might not your dream man, and he will not try hard to fix it, because he is perfectly being who he is, and he loves every single thing that belonging to you.

Trust still hard to define.
but one fact is, when you loving someone,
you will not do something that hurts him/her no matter what causes it takes.

我蹦溃了

我崩溃了

我好爱你，爱到就快无法爱自己

我知道这些都不在我控制范围里
我可以做的就只有更珍惜你，更爱你

我只能够做好自己的事，
为自己生活打算。

我要更努力，
更更更努力！

不能再是以前懒惰的我了！

天蝎
虽然外表坚硬，
内心却如此感性。

親愛的蠍子

親愛的蠍子，好好愛自己，沒人會心疼你；如果不開心了就找個角落或者在被子裏哭一下，你不需要別人同情可憐；

親愛的蠍子，學會控制自己的情緒，誰都不欠你，所以不要隨便跟人發脾氣耍性子。

親愛的蠍子，全世界只有一個你，就算沒有人懂得欣賞，你也要好好愛自己。

不能嫁 的九位男生 （转)

1. 人生沒有計劃
討厭工作、經常跳槽、不求安穩、對將來沒有計劃，即使結婚了也難以一起過安定生活。

2. 容易暴躁
喜歡為小事抱怨，結婚後恐怕有吵不完的架。

3. 收入少、花費多、不存錢
租房子、買食物、水電瓦斯全部都要錢，假如不改變單身時的消費模式，恐怕難以應付家庭開支。習慣花費的人很難給人安全感，收入少就更加不用說。

4. 缺乏做家事能力
不能自立、不會做家事、只知道依賴父母，婚後很可能將家中大小事務推給太太。

5. 大男人主義
擅作主張、不給女性選擇權利，有欠尊重。

6. 長得好看但花心
這種人不會甘心被一個女人綁住，即使成家了也很可能出軌。

7. 欠債
拖欠稅款、保險，任何形式的債務，證明這種人亳無誠信可言。

8. 與家人關係不好
少與家人聯絡，甚至不願介紹女友給家人認識，實在難以給人安全感。結婚除了是兩個人之間的事，也是兩家人的事，只有與家人和睦相處，才能讓對方安心。

9. 控制慾強
即使女友與朋友講個電話都會吃醋生氣，婚後生活一定有如坐牢般充滿約束。兩夫妻一起生活，彼此還是應該保有私人空間，互相信賴，婚姻才能長久。