Friday, April 18, 2014

A positive thinker

People are made out of positive and negative charges. 
People come around, walk around in your life. 
Some of them are negative carry, some are positive. 

One says that, stay away from negative thinker, negative actors, negative people. 
Always react with positive charged people.

I would say. 
mix with both. 

NEGATIVE PEOPLE
When met negative people,
I'm learning my emotional control, I'm learning critical thinking, I'm learning how to manage situation.
Negative people always drag you down, they will be pessimistic for everything. 
I'm learning calm down and remain positive. 

POSITIVE PEOPLE
When met positive people, 
I'm opened all my heart, and soul. 
Talk as loud as I can, because communicating with them made my life happier and more nourishale. 
With positive thinker, I'll always be a learner, and a listening as well as speaker. 

Both people always come around, walk around. 
Met both of them,
learn from both of them. 
but only be one of them. 

A positive thinker. 




 

Saturday, April 5, 2014

A lesson, expectation.

Something to tell you. 

"It's awesome place. A place where people stood up high in the middle of the sky. looking down you can see many tiny people. It's amazing because it's very new at the moment." you holding my hand looking at my eyes.

I replied. It's not much different compared with standing inside a building and look down. 
I said that. 

You unwillingly agree with that, "I think you got your point too"

It's gonna be a great day, I smile while walking out my house.
Waiting you to finish your work. and ready to surprise you. Because I'm bringing you to One City. A place where you can stood in the middle of the sky. and look down at tiny people. I manage to figure out the direction. 

It's our day, like last time. We both understood, everything we matters is our feeling and we precious our time being together nomatter what we eat, we enjoyed together. no matter how we do it, we do it together. nomatter where we go, we holding hand and go together. 

It's a big surprise for me as well, as a gift. You got pissed off.
NO, I'm not going anywhere. YOU ARE NOT RESPECTING. 
I kept myself the best possible calm. 
I didn't expect this at all. After all I have done, all time we have been missing each other, waiting for today.
I didn't expect this at all. 

All I can do, is to keep calm. Look at it optismistically, and think of a solution to make things better.
Everything goes better after that. 
I remember once said, One who control his emotion, is one who control his life. 
Have been thinking and thinking for the whole day. 
I finally realize that, it's all about expectation. 
A great expectation leads you to great dissapointment. 
And we both had wrong expectation, come with lack of communication.
Bad things happened. 

Think of it. Communication and equilvalent lifestyle is a must. 
There is no need in future to have this incident happen again. 
Learn from it, we change it. Just like we did it like past. ok? 
I know, we both love each other.
That's why you spending time to make up, and dress up. It's for me I know it. and I appreciate it so much just I couldn't tell you.
That's why I want to bring you there, a place where simply you said, "it's awesome"


"Always remember that there are many- thousands of ways of expressing love. And remember that your partner has the right to express his or her love in ways that may not be what you want or expect. When you insist that romance take a particular form. This reflects your rigidity or insecurity.
You do. Of course have the right to have some of the romance come to you in the form you desire. But don’t expect your partner to read your mind! If you want something in your life, you must take the responsibility for manifesting it. You might simply talk with your partner about your wants and needs. Some people recognize subtle hints while others need lists and reminders.
If you work with your partner’s personality instead of against it. Your relationship will be much happier "

And.
Why not we learn to love each other in the way we both enjoy.


JY

Friday, April 4, 2014

要变强,不能变质。

一个原则,一个信念,一份责任
我不是一个会随便改变的人

我目标清晰,
不会被物质诱惑而迷惑

我有信心,不代表我高高在上目中无人
我被尊敬,被爱戴,被高举
不代表我会骄傲。

我用功,
我希望能做到多从收入,
我要理财,要及时。
管理,是一门学问
而且,很不简单。
所以要从头做起,慢慢一步一步地。


我有爱好,我有多方面兴趣
而不会放弃任何一项,
运动,摄影,阅读,吉他,电脑游戏

我爱家,我感恩,我饮水思源。
我知道自己的根。
我明白爸爸妈妈如何挨过生活,
如何白手起家。

我不会浪费,
不代表我没有素质生活。
我不相信名牌,
不代表我不会送给我女友。

以前,现在,未来。
我依然是我。

目标在夜里,
特别明确。



Wednesday, April 2, 2014

无聊的一天



我以为我会享受,
这天可以好好休息,

没有意义
这4个字毁了今天

习惯了忙碌积极充实,
我不想再回到懒散的生活了! 

亲爱的宝贝,
祝我们3周年快乐。
明天见!